Romantic relationships sometimes can be the most confusing, energetically depleting interactions of our life time – if we allow them to be! Is your relationship weighing you down? If the answer is no and you have a perfect or near perfect relationship then that is fantastic, keep doing what you are doing and send gratitude to the Universe for your wonderful relationship. If the answer is yes your relationship is weighing you down then this is the article for you!
Everything in our life is simply a mirror image of ourselves, and according to the Law of Reflection everything should be about us and we should only concern ourselves with our own thoughts, feelings and behaviours. The Law of Attraction states that we attract into our lives exactly what we send out to the Universe through our thoughts, words and actions. Therefore when you look at your partner’s thoughts, words and actions you are looking at your own thoughts words & actions.
The ultimate loving and balanced relationship comes about when both people are vibrating at a high frequency. If you are vibrating at a high frequency then you will attract a wonderful partner into your life as like attracts like. In the same token, if you are vibrating at a low frequency then you will attract a low frequency relationship. We cannot blame our partners for the pitfalls in our relationships and we cannot try to make them change. They are who they are – we can however change ourselves and if we change ourselves then we change our vibration and therefore change what we attract into our lives.
The time has come for us all to take control of our own mind and emotions. Let go of the conditioning and manipulation from family, friends, partners, society and past experiences. The reality of life is that there is nothing to be scared of or worried about and if you find yourself feeling scared or worried then it is because you have created that fear in your head and have allowed it to control you and your choices.
To vibrate at a high frequency you surround yourself with things and people that make you feel happy and that emit a high vibration themselves and this in turn makes your thoughts, words and actions vibrate at a high frequency.
What do you do if you notice any low vibrational people or things in your life? You make the choice of changing the part of you that has brought this low vibration into your life.
How can you change the low vibrational part of you? There are lots of ways to work at changing your thoughts, feelings and actions. There is no particular way that is better than another, some ways are more suited to different people as we all live a very individual experience. Examples are reiki healing, crystal healing, counselling, life coaching, NLP, Emotional Freedom Technique, Flower Essences, Spiritual retreats, Meditation, the list is endless!
What if I am struggling to change? Is your partner also partaking in self-reflection and taking 100% responsibility for their life and choices – remember it takes two to tango and it is so motivating and rewarding when two people are dedicated to making the positive changes within themselves to grow as a strong loving couple together. If you are struggling to change because the negativity of your current situation is weighing you down too much, you may have to consider removing yourself from the situation to enable you to start raising your vibration so you can make the positive changes within you.
If the right choice for you is to remove yourself from the situation and you feel that you can’t then remember that there is no such thing as can’t! Can’t is a state of mind that we create for ourselves and allow other people to impose on us. Can’t is a result of fear based energies that are only a figment of your imagination.
How do you release these fear based energies? Ask Archangel Michael to remove any fear based energy you are holding onto and ask him to give you strength and courage to make the right choices for yourself. Simple as that! One more important thing – when making the choices stay focused on the current moment in time, don’t think about what ifs and buts – if you give them energy then they will become your reality as you manifest things by thinking about them! Train your mind to stay focused on right now – if your mind wanders then bring it straight back to now.
If you choose to walk away from a relationship that no longer serves you then the next step is to start surrounding yourself with and doing the things you love to do! Raise your vibration! Continue to make positive choices for your growth and development! Live a life of integrity, honesty and love.
Don’t worry about making wrong decisions, the only mistake you make in life is choosing to stay in a situation that makes you unhappy. If you higher your vibration then through the Law of Attraction you will meet someone who also has a higher vibration.
Learn how to master your life and you will live a fulfilled and happy one!
We are forever evolving as Lightworkers.
Indigo Star x
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